Heya, fellas
Tau deh, sekarang namanya jaman teknologi. Apa2 perlu pake komputer, perlu pake internet. Research di library di tengah tumpukan buku2 dekil dan berdebu? Basi. Telpon pake telkomsel daripada nge-PING pake Blackberry? Basi.
Tapi beberapa cowok bukannya make internet untuk kegiatan yg bermutu (such as creating a blog *wink*) tapi malah make internet buat bikin pick up line yg tadinya lumayan, jadi ga mutu.
Dulu kalau ada cowok ngajak kenalan, biasanya mereka nanya: “Hey, can I get your number so we can get to know each other better?” With the right smile, the right look, the right shoes, sipppp....
Tapi sekarang, makin jarang aja cowok yg minta nomor telp cewek pas kenalan. Kalimat yg paling tipikal these days malah: “Hey, what’s your facebook?”
Gah! WTF is this? Cupu. Culun. Pengecut. Ngapain lo minta2 facebook gw? Yg ada ntar lo bisa tau nama lengkap gw, temen2 gw siapa aja, gw baru ngapain kemarin malem, gw mau ngapain besok. Ngasih tau facebook gw k lo sama aja kayak ngundang lo jadi stalker.
At least kalau gw ngasih nomor hp gw ke lo, tapi besokannya gw jitak pala ngutuk diri nyesel karena setelah ngobrol 5 menit I realize I’d rather watch the grass grow than listen to you talk, gw bisa dengan gampangnya nyuekin hp gw stiap kli liat nomor lo on the display. Kalau lo mulai aneh2 sok pake unknown number, gw tetep dgn gampangnya bisa press NO in the middle of a conversation. I know it’s rude, but hey, I don’t have time to listen to you babble about random shit for half an hour.
Lha klo lo tau nama asli gw dari facebook? That’s it, I’m dead. Lo bisa nyari2 nomor gw, alamat gw, nama mak babe sepupu sodara secicit setemen sekampung gw dari Yellow Pages or, even easier, my friend list.
And I KNOW you’re gonna stalk around my albums to see how I look like in all different situations while you decide whether I’m hot enough.
Oh, please. If you don’t have the balls to ask for a number and opt for an easy "add as a friend" button instead, don’t bother.
LAME.
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LOL! This is so true bleh.. Happen to my friend. Dia add this guy, few days later dia realise her mistake, she delete this guy from her friend list. Eh, tu cowo try to add her again, direject, trus keep trying on and on and on and on. And then msg "why you didnt add me?" da gila ya, kenal jg engga (I think she met him when she was half conscious. hahaha). Not only they lame, mukanya makin tebel bak aspal. Digiles beberapa kli jg engga berasa.
ReplyDelete@Gah! WTF is this? Cupu. Culun. Pengecut. Ngapain lo minta2 facebook gw? Yg ada ntar lo bisa tau nama lengkap gw, temen2 gw siapa aja, gw baru ngapain kemarin malem, gw mau ngapain besok. Ngasih tau facebook gw k lo sama aja kayak ngundang lo jadi stalker.
ReplyDeletehmmmm ga gitu juga kale...tanpa lo kasih tau juga bisa2 aja kok orang tau semuanya itu..and lebih parahnya lagi lo ga kenal sama sekali..bahkan ga pernah ketemu sama sekali...
@Kalau lo mulai aneh2 sok pake unknown number, gw tetep dgn gampangnya bisa press NO in the middle of a conversation.
seeee...parahan kalo lo kasih no telepon lo dari pada lo kasih FB lo kan?...
ok..lo bisa reject in the middle bla bla bla...tapi apa iya lo comfort kalo dia nelponin mulu ??
FB kan bisa di setting buu..lo bisa setting sesuai dengan yang lo mau untuk ngejaga Privacy lo...
so intinya...i guest cewek-cewek justru lebih seneng ngasih FB mereka dari pada ngasih no TLP and mungkin karna itu juga para laki-laki jadinya auto, kalo kenalan mintanya FB not phone number...
hahaha......
ReplyDelete^_^
enak y jadi ce cntk... xixi..
Nice story.. ^_^
I wanna to meet you
regards,
reza
welcome back miszgee :D lama aje ga nongolnya
ReplyDelete@ex-o
welcome to our community!! :D
this good and controversial
if i get this entry right, you want to convey that asking for a "contact point" on/via facebook is less "courageous"/"prestigious" compared to asking for a "contact point" on/via phone/other means of direct contact. If so, then...
@If you don’t have the balls to ask for a number and opt for an easy "add as a friend" button instead, don’t bother.
tapi bukannya "the essence" is still "asking"? doesnt it take same balls to ask for someone's private page on facebook too?
@Kalau lo mulai aneh2 sok pake unknown number, gw tetep dgn gampangnya bisa press NO in the middle of a conversation.
isn't that the same like pressing the delete/block/reject button on facebook?
rasanya, in my opinion, facebook ngasi a lot more flexibility to protect your privacy compared to phone
waiting for replies while watching 3rd game taufik vs peter gade on Indonesia Open. IT'S AWESOME!!!!
@hmmmm ga gitu juga kale...tanpa lo kasih tau juga bisa2 aja kok orang tau semuanya itu..and lebih parahnya lagi lo ga kenal sama sekali..bahkan ga pernah ketemu sama sekali...
ReplyDeletehmmmm, gw ga tau lo tinggal di mana, but that's creepy! mungkin beda sama jakarta where you bump into the same people who know the same people over and over again. di tempat gw tinggal, if i don't want you to know who i am, u won't know who i am
@FB kan bisa di setting buu..lo bisa setting sesuai dengan yang lo mau untuk ngejaga Privacy lo..
FB emang bisa disetting, tapi karena gw pake nama lengkap asli gw di FB, lo bakal tau info penting itu at first point of contact. at least klo lo nanya no tlp gw, gw bisa ngasih lo nickname gw so it's harder for you to trace or *ehem* stalk me. this applies to the delete/block/reject button option and how they don't work in protecting my privacy
@tapi bukannya "the essence" is still "asking"? doesnt it take same balls to ask for someone's private page on facebook too?
it's a "pussy" way of asking. klo lo tlp, lo bakal obligated to be interested and interesting in your conversation. klo lo add as a friend on facebook, lo bisa merambah2 profile cewek tsb, liat2 foto, baca2 wall, sebelum lo ngumpulin the guts to contact the person privately or whatever you guys do these days
still lame :P
first of all: i am a girl.
ReplyDeleteentah kenapa kali ini gw setuju dengan pendapat para cowo. ya mendingan kasih facebook lah dari nomor HP. trus kenapa kalo mereka liat foto2 kita dan wall2 kita? dan apa perlunya "the essence of asking"? kalo lu ga mau kenal, kacangin aja dari awal. masalah selesai kan? kalo kita ignore dari awal dy juga ga bakal macem2 lagi kok. masih banyak cewe lain yg bisa di stalk selain kita.
alright! ada juga cewek yang setuju sama cowok2 :D
ReplyDeletewelcome to our community.
mungkin yang ditekankan sama miszgee di sini, gue rasa, adalah her opinion bahwa ngajak kenalan lebih jauh lewat facebook itu versi "cupu"nya ngajak kenalan lebih jauh minta telepon dan dimana versi "cupu" ini nongol seiring perkembangan teknologi
but this begs the question: kapankah kenalan lebih jauh lewat facebook akan diaccept sebagai sesuatu yang standard dan munculah versi "cupu"nya kenalah lebih jauh lewat facebook.
i can already see the infinite regress hahaha.. which implicitly indicates that there's no cupu version to begin with
gue bingung maksud lo apaan du..apa karna gue baru bangun tidur yah...
ReplyDeleteapa ini cuma sekedar evolusi cara berkenalan ??? gitu yah maksud lo ???