The Dudes at Chick Theory always complaining about us girls being uncool by 'tarik ulur'. At one point, it may be exhausting for them. But what the hell do they lose? Just some time right?! That's no big deal...
Now I'm goin to point out dudes yang nga bisa make up his mind, sedikit persamaan dengan 'tarik ulur' bukan?
So there is a dude hu givs u tons of signals. U always go out together. Dimana ada kamu, disitu ada dia. He plays with ur hair. He's like ur full-time driver. He tells u everything...BUT his feelings, of course. After several months, u thought maybe IT'S ON. Like lo udah jadian unofficially. Coz lo yakin bener, even semua temen2 lo udah nganggep both of u are a perfect couple. Like DEFINITELY.
After it goes on for a several months, dia masih belom nembak lo. Don't wonder so much gals. Cuman ada dua kemungkinan kenapa dia nga nembak lo :
ONE-he has no balls (which is tolerable)
TWO-he's caught on love bi-polar disorder, hari ini suka, besok biasa aja.
Urgh plin plan banget! And u know what? Sikap kaya' begini is totally intolerrable. Cowok ini udah makes u feel u're his everything and nothing at the same time. Yang mulai? Dia. Yang bikin lo fall in loph? Dia. Yang bakal bikin lo patah hati ketika dia bilang "gw cuman nganggep lo temen" juga DIA! JERK!
Girls, don't fall for this kinda of trap, aight? Enak di dia. Sakit di kita.
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ReplyDeleteit's not exactly the opposite side of tarik ulur..
kalo tarik ulur kan lo cewek2 sengaja cuz like... it's fun for you
tapi kalo kita plin-plan ya emank gitu adanya. Sometimes kita ga bisa decide. Now that raise the question: "why?"
Soalnya kalo kita jadian sama lo, kita bakalan invest TIME, MONEY and PATIENCE. That's a shietload of investment hahahahhaha
So sometimes kita masih mikir2, jadian ga ya? Kalo jadian ntar I'm gonna get this HUGE liability..
We love your hair.
We love your eyes.
We love your face.
We love your voice.
We loveeeeeee your body.
but we hate your nagging which will cost us time, money and patience.
and the worst thing is that we can't complain against your nagging cuz that's the "risk" we are SUPPHHHOOSED to take when we said "eh, mau jadi cewek gue ga?"... Regardless of whether we want to or not.
That's like getting butt***ked in the prison. We don't want it, but we know it's going to happen sooner or later. So might as well avoid the prison altogether.
But yes, ada cowok yang juga sengaja ngelakuin itu cuz he thinks it's fun
btw sori replynya rada lama, akhir2 ini gue sibuk like a mad n***a
well true.. u guys berpikir klo u will invest d money.. kesabaran n all dat stuff ur thinking abt.. but few things u should try to ask ur self.. (buat cwo negh supaya ga asal pdkt n tembak sana sini..)
ReplyDelete"is she worth all that??"
"will she be the one who can help me when im in a deep shit??"
or "is she really d type dat ive wante in my life?? or for this period??" (but it will be better klo u cwo2 bisa gnerti kondisi loe sendiri... know ur self better than anyone else 1st.. before having somebody to sit next to you.. very closely till they can watch every steps that u r taking...)makanya kdng jgn keburu mao pdkt sblm tau orgny gmn.. mending bertemen yg wajar2 aj.. bru klo da mulai kenal.. n krasa bisa d cocokin.. bru deh inform toet toet klo loe mmg mao pdkt...
klo cwe si.. y balik lage... deh.. filsafah hidup... MESTI TEGAS!!!
jangan mao donk d buat tarik tambang bgituan.. emberrrrrr loe mgkin uda suka.. cinta keq ato apa lah... (sorry y gwe emg rada ceplas ceplos.. so i hope no one get intimidated or feel offended.. sorry bgt nehhh)tp mnurut gwe.. cm cwe bego yg mao d buat tarik ulur... n i knoe no body are/ is....... dat stupaiiiiiddddd... the thing is... kmu cm perlu tegas.. klo kmu bisa tegas dlm hal education.. study.. money(spending).. friendship.. napa yg 1 ni ga bs?? be in control galsss.. at least dgn step ini cwo lebi bisa appreciate u more much much muchhh!! n ini pasti bgt.. mreka ga akan nganggep us girls spoil brat yg bkl nurut n mao d maenin... call u whenever he's lonely.. dump or reject ur calls.. or call the candle lite date is off u when he's havin fun wid his oth frens..
n itu mgkin mengarah k sifat keberanian ni cwe... klo yg namany mao teges.. kdng mmg perlu malu... heheh contohny ni... loe ga tahan klo d tarik tambang.. pa lg d hutan luas ini sbnerny masi ad org laen yg mao n suka ato mgkin tergila2 ma loe.. so ama cwo yg loe d posisin tarik2an ini. loe msti brani jujur. blg klo loe mmg suka.. (ya scara ga lgsung statement klo loe mmg bner2 uda sneng bgt.. tp bukan nembak lo yaa... soalny cm statement.. not a question for him to answer... remember that..) ato mgkn blg klo loe kerasa ga nyaman n u want to juz call it a day or off..
lhaa.. klo biasany uda sukaa. bkl susah bgt ngelakuin yg 1ni.. tp bneran degh.. dgn u lrean to apreciate ur self.. think logically n leaves ur emotion for a while.. u'll see that it will all be worth the time.. love and evrything uve ever wanted galsss... walopun jg mgkin ga am cwo ini lg.. tp gwe jamin cwo2 yg bertebaran d luar tuw.. ga kalah menarikny n bisa buat kmu melayang2... n mreka lebi menghargai kmu sbagai wanita tegas yg very2 outstandingly special...
krna mnurut gwe jujur ni dr dalem lubuk hati... cwo yg masi can not make up his mind.. n make all d decision.. tp brani pdkt ma us girls tu bneran cwo childish yg ga akan pnrh kepikir how will we feel abt it.. so... klo loe suka.. tp dr ptama he didn care abt ur feelings.. then wud for?? especially when u r in a stage of sacrificing evrything .. even the best thing that u might get just to be with him...
so guys n girls..u all need to be smart in this case... not in a tricky way... but with honesty... coz when u decide to love.. u decide to give more..
heheheh (kata2ny trakir tlalu romantis yak?? geli jg gwe... huahuhauhau tp jujur emg itu faktanya.. any other input for my opinion??)
@cwo yg masi can not make up his mind.. n make all d decision.. tp brani pdkt ma us girls tu bneran cwo childish yg ga akan pnrh kepikir how will we feel abt it
ReplyDeletethat gotta hurt hahahahahha
good and absolutely helpful comment, naemor! :D